Advocate III
- 5,584
- First Name
- Michael
- Last Name
- Rose
- Member #
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20990
- Ham/GMRS Callsign
- W7FSB
- Service Branch
- US ARMY Retired
No we aren’t saying force them... the soldiers my group took with us showed an interest... 3 out of the 4 in my Jeep a lone had never been in the mountains and couldn’t understand why we loved it so much and would spend all week long planning an adventure. The only way to tell some one why we really like it is to have them experience it for them selves... if the person doesn’t want to learn or experience what Mother Nature has to offer, then that’s on them... until they tell me I can’t do it because they feel the wilderness is a wild and unsafe place for a human to be. Then I have lived in the city and in the country, and you can’t take the country out of this boy.So now that I read more alot of people say now its our duty to help get people outdoors? thats like forcing people to a new hobby they have zero interest in. If you take people to your outdoor hobby, does that mean you have to learn from them how to live like they do in the city? why cant people just do what they want instead of worrying about including everyone in everything they do.
The example of my son... yes I forced him to go with me... but he also forced me to go to the BMX Track and the Sk8 parks to watch him do what he loves to do... and that boy can thrash. Unfortunately I don’t have the ability to do what he does, and I have never had the coordination to accomplish even standing on a board. But I would jump on and act like a clown just to get a snicker out of him and his friends... But what he thought he hated he has since grown to love and even crave...
So no don’t force a friend to do what they don’t want to do... when you have to get your own kids involved make compromises and make the trips about them. The more involved the teen is in the beginning stages of the trip the easier it is to get them to engage at camp.