Your winch already has relays. Just make sure they work. I'm pretty sure that Murphy has something to say about an isolation relay between your winch and battery.........
I just get out my 4mm wrench and disco the winch cable at my battery clamp. It's the cable that gets damaged and ruins your day. Hundreds of people have done what your thinking. All of their winches are connected directly to the battery now.
If you must, these isolator switches are proven:
Up to 600 Amps continuous rating for large diesel engines.
www.bluesea.com
And the darn relay you asked for:
Another relay: