Look everybody can do what ever with his own hard earned money.
I remember being on a trail back when I had Subaru Forester, and some guys in Nissan Patrols and Landcruisers told me to go back, I will never make it. I arrived at the top of the mountain before they did.
You think in Europe you have only asphalt ?
When you think of Europe you think maybe only the West europe, a handfull of countries like Germany and France.. but the geographical definition of Europe is from Atlantic to the Ural Mountains, about 3500 miles easy as crow flies..
. You can get very easy also in to Africa using ferries. Asia and the Middle east are reachable directly by land. So where you can go by land from Europe is considerable, comparable easy with US and Canada put together.. You need many years to explore it all unless you do it full time. . For me to get from Luxembourg to Iran, I can do it in 6 days of driving hard. ( Iran is on my to do list as well, when this shit with Covid ends )
So this thing with US is vast and you are small does not fly with me.
For example I went from Mediterana to Atlantic following the Pyrenees mountains tracks, about 1200 km in total and about 800 km off road. So in only a small part of Spain, a narrow corridor, you can spend many days off road easy, and Spain has a very good highway and road network.
Done in about 12 days in a 2005 Forester. Had like 1.5 inch list to compensate for sag when fully loaded. Some of it was difficult. Did not had a low range, on long downhill slopes I had break fading, had to stop often to let the breaks cool off. Had to use the maxtrax to build bridges because of the low ground clearance. I was also overloaded.. that was the biggest mistake. That was my first true overland adventure.
Next year I did not start to modify the vehicle. It was clearly unsuitable for the things I did and specially the load carrying capacity.
Back then I did not know shit , GVM did not even cross my mind. We were 3 persons and camping equipment.. the poor thing was not meant to carry all that, on, and specially off road. When empty it was doing fine.
Maybe with only 2 people and less crap to haul it is possible to make it work.
So did not go upgrade the breaks, add more lift and bigger tires, I sold it and bought a suitable vehicle, with more ground clearance, and a much higher GVM to carry me and my crap , a Landcruiser Prado, that I used for many years with success.
Each year in the last 5 I did a minimum of 7 k km on every summer holiday, usually trying to stay off tarmac as much as possible, using highways only to get to the overlanding part. In the Est and Balcans you have countries where the national roads are gravel, like Albania or North Macedonia for example. You can imagine what the off road looks like there, some pretty scary stuff.
All talk about off road here like it is some kind of muding forum. But for me the off road part is just a means to an end.. to get to the beautiful and remote spot where you have a nice view , piece, quiet, clean air.... I don't look for the biggest ditch and mud hole. If I have 2 options to get to the same spot, and 1 of them carries the risk of severe damage to the vehicle or hours of work for recovery and winch use .. than I will choose the easier road. I am overlanding, not off roading, to relax and see things, not to work my ass off in recoveries. I want to do that, than i join a 4x4 off road mudding club, plenty of those.
But shit happens, so you do need to be prepared and have some skills.
I travel with a kid in the car .
There are reasons why in most of the world is very hard to put 37 inch tires on vehicles and keep them legal or go over GVM, mostly have to do with not being able to pass any safety tests. I know road vehicle safety is not a concern in US, since as far as I know there are no mandatory technical inspections and you can do what ever you want to your car, and if there are here and there you can get away with many things, but US is just one country of many..
Breaking, acceleration, collision avoidance is all compromised. This is fine when you go wheeling with your buddies for a week end.. not so good when you travel with your family solo .
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