Guys, to quote someone famous: "Cmon, man!" It's easy to misread tone in what amounts to a text message. Some are obvious, sure, but I think the more we try to give "the other guy" the benefit of the doubt when it comes to a question of tone, the better off the place will be.
I'm at both here and Expo, too. I get something out of both places or I wouldnt visit. I'm no "overlander" by the African Safari, Aussie Outback, or even the Great American West definitions. For me I hike the Whites, Berkshires and Greens (a little). I get to Maine and even the Adirondacks of my youth when I can. I get out SOME weekends and maybe a solid 2 weeks at a time once in a while if I'm lucky. I'm looking for ways to make my truck more camp and emergency oriented. Theres a ton of really cool but expensive gear, a ton of cool gear within reach, and more importantly, a ton of great ideas in both places. Yeah ya gotta wade through other stuff and other people. But that's just the way it is. Meet the good ones and keep in touch, but read as much as you can. Most people developed thier opinions from some event or events