The spider gears you are looking for will come as part of the new carriers that will be required to go along with the larger axle shafts.So, just to re-ask a question from earlier, if I upgrade my axle shafts to 29 and 30 spline, I'm assuming I'll need to change the spider gears to match right? I feel like that's a silly question, but I've been looking around and I can't find any spider gears in the higher splines for my axles. Not sure if I'm over thinking this or not.
If you just want to install lunch box lockers (and thus avoid redoing the gear sets) then don't bother trying to change your axles. Just run the spline counts you already have.
If you are planning to install lockers that are full carriers (and will require redoing your gear sets) then it is worth considering ordering new, larger axles to go along with the new carriers. The price for the carriers is generally the same, regardless of spline count. Resetting the gears is the same, regardless of spline count. It is just a matter of adding the cost of new axles to all the rest of the package.
Only you can weigh the pros and cons of the options and decide what makes the most sense for your scenario.