Suspension is the last thing you do, after you have everything else is dialed in.
After you start going out a bit you will determine wath is a "must have" and "nice to have " for example - must have recovery points - nice to have a warm shower
Consider the weight of everything. Lets say you really want a winch . To mount it you can get a bullbar or a much lighter winch mount that only requires a cut out on your factory bumber. A bull bar looks cool and can help with approach angles. But its main function is to protect the vehicle from impact with big animals. So in Australia where you hit often a kangaroo, it is a must, but in US/ Europe not so much.
RTT - a hard shell is worth it, because of the comfort, ease of setup , wind and rain noise.
Most of the soft shell RTT have very long setup time, specially folding them and suffer from the same things as a normal tent, except they are not the ground so you sleep ona completly flat surface. . You can get a swag who is just as fast as a hardshell RTT. and leave you bedding in. A 2 person swag is 20 KG maximum a 2 person RTT rarely under 55 kg, who will sit in the worse possible spot - up top.
So take your time, build you equipment.. when you think you have it all, go to a weight bridge, check you ground clearance with your vehicle fully loaded for a trip, and with this data go to specialist to advise you on what suspension to buy.
Like many people mentioned, you can get some springs to GO over GVM, but there are very few things you can do for the tranny or the other mechanical bits.