Couldn’t agree more. Weight has been a big consideration overall. Ideally I would like to carry water weight over the rear axle, but that isn’t going to work for my packing configuration unless I put a water tank inside the vehicle (front runner or something).
I do have a reinforced tailgate, but Mopar doesn’t specify to what end this increases capacity, rather just “you can mount a 37” tire”... some 37” tire/wheel load outs can be up to 120lbs.
This is one of the reasons I designed an adjustable back plate, so that it can be snugged up against the tire to reduce any movement which could cause damage. I’m sure the weight will be pushing it, but at the same time the JL tailgate is far stronger than the JK tailgate and I personally never had any issues with my JK tailgate and 37s before I swapped to an AEV carrier.