So I'm on the same journey right now but gathering information for a while also experienced some different suspension setups ...
So this is what I know...
If you stay with 33" and want something you can adjust to your weight go with the 2" ome springs they have at least 3 steps for different weights front and back, their shocks do the job, it's mostly tuned for fire road/access road some say it's a bit of a harsh ride.
Rubicon express 2,5" kit with fox shocks, with reservoir shocks you be able to benefit from about 1,5" more uptravel wich will help smoothen the ride, add some progressive bumpstops like teraflex speed bump or supersprings sumo springs and you can get faster on Baja style terrain and things like that without sacrificing articulation.
I would focus on the shocks, changing springs is much less expensive than new shocks, so try get some good shocks like fox, Falcon, king or icon...
Bilsteins should be combined with linear springs only they tend to bottom out like in a combination with the aev springs.
What ever you build never forget the front trackbar! Even with 1" lift having centered axles makes a difference and take care of your front end geometry, adjustable front lower control arms or correction brackets like the jks brackets are a better way than the adjustable bolts.
Teraflex has got some really nice kits with affordable prices, metalcloak will give you probably the best articulation on the rocks if you choose the 6pak shocks and their great control arms.
Much more could be said but I think it's ok for now