looks like you were in the path. how'd y'all make out?
we just got tagged with a cat 2 a few weeks ago and had a few days without power. ida hit us directly a few years ago and we were without power for a month. we have natural gas at the house, so cooking and heating water wasnt a problem. not sure what size genny you have or what appliances you have, but if you are limited, you will have to probably do a sponge bath or similar.
i would imagine that well water is a good bit colder than room temp, so i guess get a 5 gal bucket and fill it and let it warm to ambient to help reduce the degrees you are having to raise the temp and then heat the water with whatever electrical appliance you have. a stove is 220v and probably more amps than a small genny will support, so you will have to use a 110v appliance like a coffee pot or microwave. microwave a big bowl of water and use a washcloth to do a sponge bath. when the wife and i desert camp, we have a small single burner propane stove we use to heat a 1qt sauce pan of water and either use a washcloth and sponge bathe or add the hot water to some room temp water and use it in bug sprayer or something. we have a 1 gal bug sprayer we use to shower and one time when we forgot to pack it, we used a 2 liter coke bottle and poked holes in the top and one in the bottom and turned it upside down as a gravity shower. nothing nice, but it will knock the stink off of ya for the most part.
depending on how ghetto you want to get...you can also get a heavy duty black trash bag and put some water in it and set it outside in that nice florida sun and it will heat up enough to bathe with.
youre married...so as long as you both stink EQUALLY, it will be OK
really hope y'all made out good and hopefully will be back to normal soon!