First Off fellow Rhodey here transplanted in NH
1st Vote: Tacoma
2nd Vote: 4Runner
3rd Vote Tacoma
4th Vote 4Runner
Good Luck
Hahaha, hmmmm...I think you may be a Toyota fan?
I almost bought 3rd gen 4Runner yesterday. Was all set to head down to NJ to look at one with the intention of buying ('99 LTD, Jade Mica green, 176k, impeccable Carfax, rear locker). Looked pretty clean, even the drivers seat looked nice. Only thing that stood out was the last two entries on the Carfax... a service at a Toyota dealer, and 3 days later it was noted it was offered for sale. Before heading down I decided to give them a call. Turns out it was in to diagnose a driveline clunk, and they also found a leaking steering rack, as well as a rotted rear suspension arm and frame. No repairs performed. Good thing I called, saved myself a drive to Jersey.
These freaking 3rd gens are all rot boxes, I'm getting ready to give up on them all together. This dealer even had some underbody shots and it looked really clean. Of COURSE they rot in a spot not readily apparent.
This same thing worries me about the Tacomas too. I drove a first gen as a Turo rental in Moab last year and really liked it. Great for throwing the bikes in the bed on the way to the trail. I was seriously considering buying a new one last year (I REALLY like the look, and the TRD OR pkg), till I drove one. I don't care how much HP the 3.5 has, it felt gutless. Decided it would annoy the crap out of me as a DD. Talked to a few other owners I met locally and they all noted it felt sluggish, and that I should go with the manual if I could.
Plus, rear drums on a new for 2016 vehicle??? F that. Even the Frontier, which is old as dirt, has rear disks.
/rant off/
I don't know, starting to lean toward a WJ as an SUV of this size, or if I go larger, a Tahoe/Yukon. I have no doubts about the reliability of the GM engines, and I have a coworker who has a beat to snot '02 Sierra with 250k+ on it that refuses to die. He's had to do wheel bearings and a water pump and things like that, but the motor/tranny just keeps chugging along. It's demise will be the toll all the New England winters and salt water boat ramps have taken on the body (he tows a boat to do salt water fishing, and it's also seen a lot of work around the fishing boat piers as he used to be a commercial fisherman).
I'm also starting to think that if I take offroading out of the equation, I might be able to follow YoungSatchels lead and just outfit my Volvo. I was looking around the inside of it last night, and I remembered that the front passenger seatback folds flat. I might be able to use that as a basis for making a narrow sleeping platform or just using a cot.