I have a 2019 Tacoma. I love it, but it is not perfect.
Visibility is meh, even the short bed dual cab BARELY (by just a couple of inches) fits in my garage, and payload is awful (1175). I put a bed topper on it and when I start adding up numbers the payload disappears quickly. I haven't weighed it loaded yet but with my basic camp setup and two people on board I bet I am close to maxed out, and I don"t have steel bumpers or a roof top tent or any other bits of cool stuff.
I was aware of that going in though. I accepted the limitations in exchange for reliability, build quality, parts availability, and I just think it is a cool looking truck. The bride and I find it to be comfortable and roomy and I feel like it drives like a smaller truck than it really is. On long trips I get between 23-24MPG, normal driving I get 18.5-19.
I would definitely get one again.
Thats my contribution to your quest.