Honestly it depends on budget, what your goals are, ability, etc...
For my goals I went with a Drive By Cable setup and a 2001 suburban. It was a 1500 so the trans was a 4l60e. My original plan was to use an nv3500 5spd with a manual Tcase. I will be going to that after I get everything driving how I like.
I can't stress enough that the Body lift made everything easier. Just having room to work and mount everything was well worth the investment.
Engine management, if I could do it over I would go with the holley Sniper system.
My budget isn't massive but I don't like to skimp and buy cheap products that are going to screw me over in the long run. Is it better to buy a whole car or should I pull a engine from a junkyard?
I definitely want to keep the Monty a manual but after doing some research, chances are I'll keep it as an auto as you did until I like how it drives. Is the stock Montero Tcase able to bolt up to the 4L60 with an adapter or am I going to be looking at buying a Tcase as well?
I will 100% be doing a body lift as I want to offroad this truck and stick 33s or 35s under it. As well as a suspension lift but I haven't found a kit that I like yet. How tall of a body lift did you go for? I've seen 1in, 2in and 3in lifts.
I'm still in the process of choosing what engine management system I want to use but I'll definitely take a look at Holley's sniper system. I've heard plenty of great things about Holley.
Thanks!