I mainly run the back roads. A lot of what we have around here isn't horrible as my rig in stock form could handle it. I lifted it with the OME springs and Bilstein shocks to get it leveled out, be able to handle the extra weight of my gear without changing the handling capabilities too much, better ride quality in general, and to clear a little larger tire without worrying about tearing things up. If I get better tires, it would perform as I'd like and be able to handle most of what I want to run. I think my desire for sliders comes from just easier access to the roof is all. Side steps would suffice but they're usually flimsy and fall apart.
I have no desire to build this into a rock crawler as it's also my daily driver. I'm sort of building a Swiss Army knife or Leatherman multi-tool. She may not handle amazing in all conditions, but I could make it through. I haven't found a need for more lift or much more armor. Mainly just wanting that extra reassurance and the step mainly. With that said, with say a TRD Pro T4R, I wouldn't really need to do much in the way of add-ons since it's plenty capable from the factory. The WJ unfortunately wasn't built from the factory like that. The Overland edition of the WJ came close.
I know I'm replying to an older post, and you've decided to keep your Dub, but don't get hung up on the T4R Pro. Unless you want to fly down rough roads at high speed, the 4R doesn't really have anything on your WJ. You already have a lift, all you need is better tires, rock sliders, and a rear locking differential and a 4R would have a hard time keeping up with you on a rugged trail. That solid axle/coil spring front suspension on the WJ is AWESOME once the going gets really rough. Disconnect the front swaybar links, and there's tons of flex.
The only really useful thing the 4R Pro or Off-road comes with is the locking rear diff. The crawl control and terrain management are just gimmicks, and the tires that come on the Offroad are garbage, and they're only slightly better on the Pro. So either way, tires are going to be your first mod on one of those, after dropping 40large+ on the vehicle itself. And they don't come with sliders, so you'll need those as well.
For tires, btw, I had great luck with 245/75/16 on my 2" lifted ZJ. Big enough to look and perform better, small enough they didn't really effect performance or my gas mileage.