Totally agreed! I've been searching for a vehicle specific list of needed tools, but have had no luck. Do you know a source?
I do not know of any such source. My tools are collected based on experience and bits I can glean here and there from vehicle specific forums.
Some of my best experience comes from pulling parts in the junkyard.
One other point that should be made is GET QUALITY TOOLS!
Junk tools damage fasteners, and potentially even yourself. You might be able to compromise on 6 point sockets, but anything 12 point (socket or closed end wrench) needs to be made well. Otherwise they end up rounding off the heads. And I have no idea how many cheap breaker bars, extensions and adapters I have broken over the years, but I have only broken 1 Snap On adapter and one Cornwall adapter, and both of those involved the use of leverage.