There’s an old saying I made up ;-)
“If the question is gear, the answer is more.”
This makes sense to me when I say it, but I don’t know if my meaning is actually clear.
If you’re asking what gear will make your (insert activity here, i.e. overlanding, gunfighting, building a deck) better, the answer is more and better gear.
Sometimes the question does need to be about gear, but the starting point is always mental preparedness.
I think one of the hardest things is the balance between being ready for what you need to be ready for while simultaneously not spending energy trying to solve problems you don’t actually have.
The struggle is ongoing. Enjoy it.
You should trademark that, coin it, or whatever it.... Thats pretty daggum good, and very accurate. (As are all the answers above).
So much time is spent researching gear, discussing gear, and less actually getting out there and using it or figuring out what you really need. This isn't a knock on the original poster by any means. I just agree with all the statements above, and have discovered it through personal experience/history. We are about to start bringing our two young kids with us for the first time, and my plan this week is to just simply camp in the backyard a night or two, and figure out do I need to bring a pack and play, or do they end up lying with us anyways...etc.
Also like mentioned above, grab the essentials and maybe a little more, and get out there and discover what else ya may want/need.
Enjoy it the experience, but have fun / be safe while doing it.