285/75r16 or 285/70r17 will rub unless you're close to 3" of lift up front and even then, you'll probably need a cab mount chop and plastic trimming. If your Tacoma is an auto, you will feel a loss of power unless you re-gear the diffs. Also, keep in mind that you'll have to mount 285s on aftermarket wheels with proper offset/backspacing to get the tire away from the factory UCA, or you'll need aftermarket UCAs (or both). Generally, I think the backspacing you want is 4.5 or less (less backspacing means the wheel/tire is further from the UCA). Don't quote me on the 4.5 though.
FWIW - I ran 265/75r16s and factory wheels on my 09 auto Tacoma and had no change in power, no issues with shifting, no noticeable loss in MPG, and no rubbing with a 2" lift.
Rough Country is
not know for quality products. The lift you linked is a drop bracket lift that utilizes blocks and drop brackets to lift the vehicle's
factory coilovers and leafs. I would stay away from these types of lifts since you'll have to cut and remove your factory cross member and bolt theirs (drop bracket) in place, which is not reversible and not
stronger as Rough Country claims. I'd stick to suspension lifts (using new struts/coils and leaf springs to lift). Look at Old Man Emu or even Bilstein 5100/Toytec coils if you're looking for a good budget lift. Also note that over ~2.5" of lift, you need new UCAs to get a proper alignment. So, back to tires; if you want to run 285s, you'll need greater than 2.5", so you'll need new UCAs anyway.
As far as CAIs go, your factory air intake is already a cold air intake (pulls air from the passenger wheel well). I wouldn't mess with it. I had a TRD CAI in mine and it did jack shit other than the WOOOSH sound at full throttle. Also, aftermarket low-flow filters (K&N, TRD, Volant, etc.) will only increase the amount of dirt and dust that makes it to the motor. When I put mine on, my throttle body was spotless. 20k after I installed the CAI, I ended up removing it and going back to stock because I noticed the throttle body was filthy.
You might want to stop by tacomaworld.com before you buy anything. They'll have lots more advice to offer (more coherent than my babble as well).