To answer the OP's original question, I believe the answer is no. For people who WANT to do something, they'll find a way. For those that don't, they'll find an excuse. If a grown man says to me, "overlanding is not for me because it is too expensive", I interpret that as, "I'm just not that interested in overlanding", or "I've got other priorities and interests that are more important to me right now". Overlanding is about getting AWAY from life's pressures, getting out into nature, and having an adventure with family and/or friends.
Everyone approaches this hobby from their own perspectives, life stages, financial situations, and interests. In my particular case, I use my rig (1995 Jeep ZJ) for general camping (with two young kids), weekend-landing, off-roading, and hunting (in Colorado). The first time I took my son camping (he was almost 3 at the time), we folded the seats down and slept in the back. In the 5+ years since, I've added a RTT, awning, rear bumper with tire carrier, storage racks, etc., all in an effort to add efficiency to packing/unpacking and setup/takedown. If you've camped with young kids, you know that anything that reduces time/effort in the field is worth its weight in gold! These have been deliberate, experience-driven decisions as funds have allowed.
I watch a lot of the YouTube influencers to get ideas and to live vicariously through them at times, but I never once felt pressured to buy something in order to fit in. When you truly get away, there are no Joneses to keep up with!
Just my 2 cents.
-Brent
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