@Jay61 This! Well said! Bravo! Once upon a time, every thing was harder. The issue though isn't the gear that makes life easier. The issue is that this perceived "ease" is the selling point, and people are buying stuff to ease activities in which they do not participate.
Of course, I'm better than everybody else because I don't need any of that fancy gear. I take only tools manufactured overseas by multiple-million-dollar corporations, spare tires mass-produced by companies older than myself, and recovery gear carefully hand-crafted by endless rows of soulless machines. The food I eat on my journeys is only granola bars mixed in the kitchen of an industrial robot the size of a cement mixer and raisins harvested by the likes of a hundred thousand tons of steel farming equipment.
I am the very definition of self-reliant!
/sarcasm
Sound familiar?
Even those heavy cast iron pots and pans exist to ease cooking. Those heavy canvas tents exist to ease life in the wilds.
Somebody designed each piece of equipment that each one of us uses for any purpose. Therefore, our "self-reliance" relies exclusively on other people.
This prideful hypocrisy is what drives the gear-mania, alongside the advertisers who get paid to lead dummies to think they need this stuff.
It isn't the actual gear that is being criticized necessarily, so much as the mindset that you're "missing out" or "doing it wrong" leading you to buy stuff you really don't need. If you really do need it, then you're not part of the problem - but buying mass-produced equipment does not make you capable of being more self-reliant. Much the opposite.
The fact is that humans are practically incapable of being self-reliant, which is why God created Eve... and the rest is history!
(The overlanding community is not killing itself.)