The problem people don't seem to realize is things wear out. I spend a bit of time on mud and that school of thought runs rampant. The 100 series is an AWD vehicle that's 20+ years old. AWD causes way more wear on a front diff then a rear.
I'm not sure how the ATrac system caused a ring gear to break though. Its a traction control system that applies the brake to try to slow a spinning axle. Traction control systems that operate like this work "OK" but are not fallible. Things like letting off the throttle to help it is usually a good idea.
I agree with
@Bama_Kiwi. Its a physics issue.
20 plus years on a ball joint is pretty good for one that sees off road. A "creaking" ball joint was worn out a long time ago.
I have no sympathy for anyone that doesn't check things but waits until it breaks then complains. If I break something with "Normal usage" I step up and replace the offending part with something stronger. If its not available, I chose the wrong vehicle to build.
People tend to think that Toyota's are indestructible. Their very well built and some parts are built a bit stronger then necessary. One must look carefully at the size of the axles on whatever vehicle they want to off-road.
The 100 series has an 8 inch ring gear in the front. A Dana 44 is 8.5. If I didn't build the crap out of the Dana 44's in my other vehicles, 35's would are really pushing their strength with lower gears. The dana 44 is a solid axle and way stronger then the 8 inch independent in the 100 series or the Tacoma's. What that means is, if your going to be hard on it, you need to step up and build it properly.