I mean, no one else at all seems to be having these issues you are having. so..... blaming gaia seems pretty incorrect imo. If it was indeed something they were doing wrong these would be issues a much larger audience would be having.
you are absolutely allowed to voice your opinions and issues, but to place blame where it really isn't needed is kind of silly imo. Seems your odd combination of whatever you have going on with your setup is the issue. which, i could still be something on their end that doesn't like your setup, but when its something so specific and small userbase (after browsing other forums and google no one else seems to be having these issues), can you really blame them for not being able to completely solve the mystery issue at the snap of your finger?