I've gotten away from disposable as much as possible. I have a set of metal cutlery I got at Target for less than $10 and keep in a plastic organizer tray with dividers. I went to the dollar store and got plastic plates, bowls and cups and 2 of the plastic tubs.
I have an old large pot, an old small pot and a cast iron skillet. (and of course plastic wine glasses)
I also bring one good knife and a rollup cutting board (also from target)
Everything fits in one tub and the tub makes a nice table for when you take your GF camping for her first time ever and it POURS rain and you're stuck in the tent...(or so I've heard)