That's difficult. I dont have a suggestion of where but, more of a what. The engine/trans while a concern, wont leave you stranded as fast as the bolt on parts. You should replace eng/trans with quality as well as what I describe below.
There's a few things you can do but nothing will tell you anymore than guessing. What I suggest is costly but about the best you can do if there's a concern about being left stranded.
Baseline the vehicle with OEM quality or better. Replace with new anything that can strand you. This will put you at a starting point. You can replace parts that wear one at a time, do only what you need but, no one can predict. For example, crank sensor on your vehicle should be replaced around 100k (or sooner). You replace it and you know that will be good for "around" 100k". Once your done with all the bolt on electrical and mechanical parts, your left with wiring. Wiring and connectors are something you cant predict, you just have to look at them and make sure they haven't gotten brittle with age and their being properly held in place still.
Like I said this is expensive. When I buy a used vehicle as a toy or transportation, this is the first thing I do. I have over 10k invested in my cruiser and I still have a few more items. I did all the work.
Getting a mechanic to inspect it is a crap shoot. If you say "I want reliability and don't want to be stranded" a good tech will replace things to give you a starting point (baselining). Now you can say "it should last this much longer".
For this reason, I always had put my wife in a new lease vehicle every three years. One less thing I had to worry about. I spent most of my lifetime in a shop, building things and watching people at my four wheel drive events with the same questions. I have watched too many "cheap" replacement parts fail regularly. I refuse to buy anything critical from an auto part store. Its not worth me being stranded. At my age I really don't want a 3+ day walk out of the Mojave Desert because I cheaped out on something.
Again, this is something I have spent a lifetime figuring out. If your really concerned, you cant settle with "good enough". When your done estimating, now you decide if what your doing can be done by replacing the vehicle with new.