My $0.02.
Not knowing what rotors/calipers are on your rig, if all things were equal, there are FAR more options in 17" tires and they are less expensive compared to 18's and 20's due to the overall competition. I run the Kenda Klever 35/10.5/17", essentially a 10.5" wide 34" tire instead of the typical 12.5" wide 35" tire common to msot JKU's. Its terrific in everything I have thrown at it and I picked them up at WallyWorld for less than $150 apiece. I have a comparatively lighter weight 34" tire and AEV Salta combination at 84lbs compared to a BFG KO2 35/70/17 and Salta combo at roughly 96lbs and it is narrower and fits within my fenders. I remain legal in all states (I run mudflaps too) and I have a narrower contact patch which is helpful in my dirt, dust, snow and ice trails I run normally.
Braking for me is fine, but when fully loaded, could be improved. I am changing out to a bigger rotor and caliper kit for front and rear after the holidays. My OEM wheels were 17's so clearance was not an issue when I changed wheels. The kit I am buying will also fit with my AEV wheels. For you however, I am not certain you can run a 17, I just dont know the Nissan game at all. Spacers are not the best idea. Finding the right rim with the proper backspacing and offset is. Proper wheel backspacing puts the wheel/tire in or out appropriate to your needs.
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Unsprung weight (axles, wheels and tires) has a direct effect on acceleration, braking and overall wear and tear on drivetrain components. Lighter is better, but heavier can be overcome, its just a matter of how you want to spend your money.
IMO, the wheels you describe are not a terrific idea. Simulated anything serves no other purpose than bling bling. Bling wont get you out of the mud, out of a ditch, over rocks and tree stumps. There is nothing wrong with a great looking wheel, but simulated serves no purpose in this environment.